Chief Household Officer

Ive received a few mails in the past asking me about who all know about the status of our marriage, do the family, friends, servants know, etc. While ive mentioned elsewhere in the blog about how except for Ms V’s friend Ms Suchi, we have told nobody else about our exact status. There is only one part exception to this and that is our maids. Like in most Indian households and especially in Delhi, we have two part time maids, one a cook and the other who cleans the house, clothes, etc. Part of my responsibilities is managing them, ensuring stuff is being done well and Mms V sometimes jokingly calls me her chief house management officer! While of course these maids do not know the exact arrangement between Ms V and her husband, they do know that I don’t work outside and am at home all day, I get up earlier than her and supervise the household and that I wash my own and some of Ms V’s clothes. So they sense in a way that im the ‘wife’ (in the traditional sense) in the couple. And while I sometimes boss them around while Ms V is sleeping, I don’t do it when shes up and around. Also, only Ms V pays out their salary, never me. So they probably see me as a sort of head servant. Sometimes this leads to incidents like the one that happened last week.

Last Friday was a holiday because of Independence Day so Ms V was home and got up late. I got up earlier like always, to let in the maids and wash Ms V’s under garments. I had been a bit curt with the cleaning maid (name’s Rekha), who usually tries to finish off work by leaving out whatever she thinks I wont catch onto. She’s heavy set, often argues with me. So after I had a spat with her, I went to my/servant bathroom where I wash clothes and took some time. In the meantime Ms Vv came out of her bedroom and asked the cook for her tea. While she was having her tea, Rekha went to Ms V and complained to her that the servants bathroom (which is where I was and which I use too) was filthy and not being cleaned regularly.   Cleaning both bathrooms is my responsibility, and Ms V usually checks it for cleaning. The maids also said that she told me the bathroom was filthy, and I told her to basically go fuck herself. Now none of this was true, but she knew complaining to Ms V was one of the best ways to get back to me. Ms V called me and asked me in front of Rekha “Aroon why haven’t you been cleaning the servants toilet?” in front of her. I was surprised and a bit guilty, because I had skipped the last cleaning scheduled for the servant/my bathroom (thought I cleaned hers.) it was wrong of me, and now the maid’s complaint had exposed me. “I..im sorry Ms V. I thought ill clean it on Sunday. Ill do it now if you want” I nervously replied. Ms V glared at me for a few seconds, then asked “what have I told you about keeping both bathrooms clean?” Rekha stood looking smug and chipped in in Hindi “I told him the toilet was too dirty to us, but he just got angry at me.” “Rekha you go and finish your work” Ms V told her. Once she had left Ms V told me “you’re such a jackass Aroon. Now ill have to tell Rekha to keep tabs on you?” I apologised again of course, but I had pissed my mistress wife off first thing in the morning, never a good thing. And I decided to be more careful and respectful to Rekha the maid in future!

Hi, this is Vani

Hi guys, this is Vani, although i think you'l probably know me as Ms V! Aroon is my husband, such as he is, and has been writing so much about us on this blog that i decided i'd chat will you time to time from now on as well. Im sure you'll all agree its a good idea!

Now Aroon has been a naughty husband in the past but ive decided to forgive him and move on. In his writings here in the blog about us he sometimes whines a lot doesn't he! But there are some rules that i make sure he follows, so that you dont get too bored. While i let him write about our household setup, there are some things i dont let him write about here, one of which is our sex life. Now i know, whats the point of writing about a FLR if we leave out the juicy bits, right? But i want some privacy limits, so thats how it is.

Now Aroon has asked me if he can be allowed to write about just his 'sex' life. Do you think its necessary, should i let him write about how often (or not!) i let him cum and how? Let me know what you think at my email -iamagodess1@gmail.com.

Ill make sure to pop in here once in a while from now on and make sure he's keeping you entertained. Ciao!

My Reformation - II

Hi people im here to tell you all a bit more about how I was a fool and how things have changed for me. In my last blog post I told you about how id been a fool and was kicked out by Mms V. She only took me back after I begged and finally asked her closest friend Ms Suchi to intervene. As a result of that, Ms Vv took me back on a ‘probation’ period of 1 month to check my behaviour. I am happy to report that after my probation period ended last week, Ms V agreed to let me stay on, with conditions cleared. Ms Suchi is the only person outside of Ms V and me who now knows the real status of our marriage, although she found it amusing at first and now keeps checking in on me online and physically.

Through this post I want to thank Ms V for taking me back into her life, and ms Suchi for helping me realise what I was missing by giving into my male ego.

I also want to update you all on the changes that Ms V has allowed in our relationship post my probation. There are somethings she has allowed me to do which were not allowed earlier, and I have to follow some new rules which are for my own good. Those of you who have been following our blog know that all our property is owned by Ms V, I do not work outside, manage the house and that’s all. Based on Ms V’s discussions with Ms Suchi, she has told me the following :

1.     Working: Ms V has allowed me to work outside part time, subject to the fact that I will leave for work after she does and be back home before she comes. My salary will be auto debited into her account as soon as I get it. This will give her more money to spend, and she will release Rs 1000 per month for me to spend. I will be allowed to work only October onwards, as she wants me to learn something else before that (point 6).

2.     Chastity: We have ordered a chastity device which I will put on before she leaves for office and be opened once Ms V comes back in the evening. Cumming will be allowed at Ms V’s discretion, once or twice a month.

3.     Sleeping : I am now allowed to sleep in a separate bed and not on the floor as earlier. But I have to manage the house and maids etc like before, so I get up earlier than Ms V to ensure she doesn’t get late to office.

4.     Magic word: On regular week days, we have a regular vanilla routine. On the weekends on any time when Ms V says a ‘magic’ word (which I cannot disclose here) I immediately have to go into a sub mode. This could be if she calls me while im at work as well, and then I have to immediately report back at home and do whatever she wants done.

5.     Household roles and responsibilities: There are some things which I have to do around the week. I manage the maids and ensure the house functions smoothly. I cannot eat before Ms V has eaten, I have to ask her permission before going to the bathroom, only I clean the bathrooms (not the maids) and Ms V’s clothes (all) are handwashed by me.

6.     Ms V’s beauty care: Ms V is particular about her maintenance, and thinks she spends too much every month on salons. She has decided that I will take on some of the tasks involved so that she has money available from what she and I earn. Starting end August, she will be calling a girl from a salon she goes to to train me to give a professional pedicure, manicure and waxing. Till she is satisfied I have learnt well I will not be allowed to work outside. Thereafter I will give her weekly services over the weekend.

7.     Guests, punishment: these things remain unchanged from what Ms V had decided for me in March, as I outlined in my post ‘Ides of March’.

Im now looking forward to my ‘new’ life with my loving wife and goddess!

My Folly and Reformation

I am writing around two and a half months after my last update on this blog. The reason for this is not the usual ‘too busy to write’ stuff that people give, but because I was stupid and tried to challenge my goddess’s role in our life. I have been allowed to write about it to apologise publicly about my stupidity and to ensure that I get the ridicule and contempt from those of you who have been reading about us.

Around two months back in april I had started to feel (wrongly) kind of stifled and frustrated with my own state of affairs. Those of you who have been reading about us over the last few months know that I am not allowed to work outside, I manage the house, and any outings in the evenings are only when Ms V feels like one. So in April I kinda snapped, and had a huge argument with Ms V. my ‘manhood’ demanded that I have freedom, and I didnt want to continue with the way things were. To cut a long story short, I was a fool, Ms V threw me out of the house, and I spent time moving from one friend’s house to another for a month or so before I came to my senses. By end May I used to beg Ms V over phone, letters and emails to forgive me and take me back but she refused. She only relented after I begged her closest friend from school (Ms Suchi) that I wanted to be with her (without telling her our relationship status).

Ms V finally let back into her life and house in end of June, with new conditions that I have agreed to, she knows best. I was given permission to blog about us again yesterday, so here I am.

I would like to inform everyone of you that I have been a fool to challenge Ms V, and will never make the mistake again. She is my goddess and knows what’s best for me. I will forever cherish, worship and obey her. 

Punishment : Unauthorized Erection

One evening earlier this week, Ms V caught me with an unwarranted and unauthorised erection. I had simply been moving her sandals from one room to another after she came back from office, when the fact that i was holding things that she had had on her feet made me go uncontrollably erect. Ms V was in an irritable mood since she had a busy day at office, so she was furious that i coudnt do a simple thing without getting horny.

She told me to tieup my balls and report for punishment. I went on my knees after tying my balls, and recieved some well deserved slaps on the face. she took a picture of me like that so that i could feel ashamed of how frivolous i am (like an animal she said). She's told me to place it here on the blog for the world to see, and to feel ashamed. I am sorry Ms V!

Ides of March

My apologies to everyone for the long break in updating you with whats happening with us lately. As I’d mentioned in my Feb end entry (Our 3^rd Lifestyle Change Anniversary), Ms V decided to make changes in our ‘administrative system’ (as she calls it!). Sso I thought I’d tell you about what routine we’ve been following since the 1^st of March.

I start the day getting up around an hour earlier that Ms V. I sleep on the carpet now, not in the bed with Ms V, so start by rolling up my bedding, doing my thing in the servants toilet (don’t use Ms V’s bathroom anymore) and then letting in the maids before waking up my wife with a cup of tea. I then wash Ms V’s clothes in the servants bathroom, and once Ms V’s left for office, my own bath. I sometimes want to go out and catchup with friends, but im not allowed to go out without Ms V’s permission. Also, I haven’t managed to collect enough allowance to do anything out yet. So I spend the time keeping Ms V’s cupboards in order, doing the odd thing that needs fixing around the house, occasionally listening to Ms V on skype when she calls to check on me. Most of the week is the same, except for the weekend (Fri-sat, because she visits her parents on Sunday and I have to stay at home). Weekends are when Ms V indulges in the sexual side of our relationship.

In the last two weeks there were two occasions when Ms V got pissed with me and the new system of ‘administration’ hit me hard. Im writing here about the first one that happened on Friday night (7^th March).

Ms V tried out her new strapon (5 inch Mini Whopper, its called) on me for the first time on last friday, with a condom on. I was of course naked, while she had a tee shirt and her panties on.  This was my first time with it, and she made me get on all fours on the bed while she stood and entered me from behind. I didnt know what to expect, but as the dildo slid into my asshole I hadn’t known how itll fill it! So I reacted by yelping and moving forward, upsetting Ms V’s rhythm as she was starting to pump in and out. She was understandably furious! She called me a moron (which I guess I was), slapped me and told me to get on my knees. “ill teach you to respect this thing” she said. Made me kneel and stood in front of me with her hands on her hips, and made me suck it like a real cock. “now that you’re a proper sissy, this is all the sex im going to give you from now on!” she told me, as she pumped it in and out of my mouth. Then she made me stand facing the wall with my hand on my head, and again inserted the dildo into my ass. This time I stayed still, and to my shock I discovered that the feeling of my wife’s dildo filling my asshole didn’t feel all that bad! In fact I got a hard erection, which kept rubbing on the wall as Ms V pumped in and out of my ass. She got quite excited once she was in the rhythm, laughing excitedly and telling me “see, that’s how a sissy husband like you should be fucked!” I could only mumbled ‘yes mistress’ as I tried to make up my mind whether I was appalled or enjoying my cock’s reaction to the fucking I was getting. Then Ms V stopped pumping, and unstrapped the harness leaving the dildo in my ass only, leaving my cock erect. She lay on the bed and told me to use my mouth on her, which of course I did, till she came and pushed me away with her foot. Then I knelt near her feet feeling like a fool with my cock erect and the dildo still inside my ass, hoping she feel satisfied enough to use her hand on my cock. But Ms V got irritated when she saw my erection. “stand up” she told me, I did, with my cock standing in front of her. She slapped my erect cock hard, and I yelped again. Then she held my cock and slapped my balls. “sorry mistress” was all I could say, but she slapped my balls thrice more while holding my now shriveling cock, as I cried out. Once my cock went limp she told me to clean the dildo and get back to the servants bathroom to be locked up as punished for spoiling her mood earlier. That’s how my first experience with the dildo ended, and I have to say it wasn’t an unpleasant one. 

Your Opinion- How I should be serving

In our 3^rd year of lifestyle change, Ms V wants to change the way we have been active sexually. She feels strongly that about my anatomy and how she’ll handle it, and is curious about some stuff we’ve not tried before in our sessions. Now some of the things she wants to do are things ive begged her to reconsider and  im not comfortable with. But she feels that my opinion shouldn’t cloud her judgement, so that solution is to seek an opinion poll from you readers of our blog.

Give us your serious opinion on the following things that Mistress V in considering:

a.       Me cumming – Ms V feels it’s a redundant concept that she can control me only through when and how she lets me cum. She doesn’t need to, as she owns and controls our investments, house and me. I have no assets in my name at all now, and if I misbehave at all, she can simply kick me out of the house legally and figuratively, and ill be just another beggar on the streets of Delhi. She has expressed her ‘disgust’ to me more than once that she shouldn’t have to be bothered about whether I masturbate at home, but if she wants to use my cock and I cant get it erect she’s going to be very angry and take action accordingly. That’s something I never want to disappoint her with. So whether I have cum or not, I intend to always obey her, and she knows it.

Ms V needs me to be ready to service her when she’s in the mood, usually with my mouth. She has said that she will never want to jerk me off, or let me touch any part of her with my cock, so I shouldn’t ask.

My view is that I would miss feeling her hands or her beautiful feet or legs on my cock, something I fantasise about even now when shes not around.

Your opinion?

b.      Ass fucking – Ms V has now developed a fixation with using my ass as final frontier for her control over me. She ordered a strapon online (to be received in the next 3 days I think), and told me she wants me to keep my ass clean and free of hair from now. She feels that males have considered ass fucking women as casual as regular sex, so why shouldn’t she be able to use me the same way?

My view is that this is something I have never even fantasised about, and honestly dread. It’s a violation, closer to rape than anything for a man, so I’d rather not go there.  

Your opinion?

c.       Cross dressing – My wife feels making me wear panties and a dress would be perfect when she wants to rub home our role reversal at home. Combined with her plan to use the strapon on me, this would complete her control over me, which makes her happy.

My view is that this is something that kill smy idea of a man totally, even if im a man under my wife.

Your opinion?

d.      Online hiring out – Ms V she would like to have me serve other women online on cam, and record it for her own use. While neither of us are comfortable with the idea of each other having actual sex outside our marriage, this would be a good alternative to the real thing, and amusing for her.

Your opinion?

Please give us your opinion by leaving a comment here, on Facebook or Fetlife. Before leaving a comment, please keep in mind that your opinion will decide whether Mistress V decides to go ahead with this or not, and will impact my lifestyle for the future!

Our 3rd Lifestyle Change Anniversary!

Last month was the 3^rd anniversary of our marriage transformation into a wife led relationship ,and one which ive enjoyed most of. Mistress V is everything I could’ve imagined even a professional mistress to be when she wants, and a firm yet fair head of our two member family. She’s doing well professional and earns more than enough to provide for both of us, while my job is to ensure I run her house efficiently. She owns and controls our investments, gives me an allowance that im allowed to spend under supervision, and generally controls things (ive explained in my post “How our marriage evolved”)

Last month, Ms V decided to change some things in our relationship, she believes that she sometimes give me too much leeway and that could in the long term harm our relationship. Ms V’s company has been working a lot with government departments, and she says that while the bureaucratic systems can be irritating professionally, she believes a lot of those processes can be used in our relationship so she has total control over what I do. Some of the things she has in mind concern our lifestyle, while some concern my sexual interaction with her. She has asked me to share both with everyone who follows our blog, so that other Indian women and husbands can take inspiration from the same, and give their suggestions on improving our relationship.

The lifestyle changes that Mistress V has decided affect how we live in our apartment in Vasant Kunj, New Delhi. Some of the lifestyle changes that Ms V has said we’ll follow from 01 March 2014 onwards are here:

1.       Clothing – I have been so far wearing an undie in the summers, and full clothing during the winters in the house. Ms V now feels there is no need for me to be dirtying clothes during most of the day, as I should be made to feel my position in the house at all times. Also, it would help make her de-sensitized to my nudity, so that I have no role in making her feel aroused or not aroused, it would be totally dependent on her mood. So from 1 March, I will wear no clothes except in the morning while the maids are around.

2.       Sleeping – So far we’ve been sleeping on the same bed, although I get up much earlier than her to let the maids in in the morning, etc. Mistress V has told me that shes finds it disturbing when I get up early in the mornings, so its more convenient that I sleep on the carpet in the drawing room. I open the doors for the maids in the morning, and then wake up Ms V when its time for her to get ready.

3.       Bathroom – We have been using the same bathroom so far, and have the second bathroom for use by the maids. Ms V feels she shouldn’t have to use the same bathroom as me, so I am now not allowed to use Ms V’s bathroom. I have to use the servants bathroom, and also clean it once a week, and get it inspected by Ms V.

4.       Guests – Ms V feels that when she has guests from the office or her family, it is awkward for her to have me sitting around her as her equal. So from now onwards, if she has guests who do not know me, she will be locking me up in the servant bathroom. I am not to make any noise while im in there, and the light will be kept off. Once the guests leave she’ll let me out.

5.       Her clothes – Ms V feels her maid does a horrible job washing her clothes. So from 01 March onwards, I will wash her clothes including her panties and bras myself. If I screw up or damage them in any way, she will punish me and also deduct the cost of them same from my weekly allowance.

6.       Allowance – Ms V has been giving me an allowance of Rs 200 a week, so around 800 a month. She will be reducing that to around Rs 150 a week, and will keep Rs 50 as a ‘tax’, to be paid to me at the end of the month if ive been on good behavior. If I anger her during the week, no allowance.

7.       Once a month outing application – She has allowed me to meet my own friends outside the house once a month. If I want to go out, I have to give her a written, 2 page application 10 days in advance, explaining why I should be allowed to go, the purpose of the outing, estimated cost, going out and coming back timing. I have to put the written application on her slippers after she’s gone to bed for the night. She will reply with an ‘ok’ or ‘rejected’ in 7 days time.

8.       Additional money application – If my outing application is approved and if I don’t have enough monthly allowance left out of the total Rs 800, I can put in a written application to my wife for additional money. This additional money request cant be more than Rs 500 at any time, and should be made at least a week before the planned outing. It should explain why I want the money, reason why she should be favourably disposed. She will reply within 7 days.

9.       Punishment- Ms V does not believe in spanking or corporal punishment as such. But depending on the severity of my action, she will be doing any of the following – making me stay as a ‘murga’ for as long as she wants, tieing my balls and cock with a string and tie them to the main door and leave me there, put clothpins on my cock, balls, tongue, ears and nipples and use me as furniture. In the extremest of cases, if I ever shout back at her or act savage (which I will never have the audacity to do), she has told me she will use pepper spray on my cock and balls.

So that’s a glimpse of what our lifestyle is going to be in a few days from now. My wife knows whats best for our relationships, so I think I see the sense in wht she wants us to do. Let us know what you think!

Happy New Year all!

Hi all,

Sorry for the long pause, Ms V has been travelling on and off over the last month and took me along. we just got back from trips ranging from Bombay to Shimla and Jim Corbett! Mistress V sure knows how to take care of her house husband, touch wood!

While we didnt get too much time to be actually indulge in 'play' (as Mistress V calls it), she did let me cum once in the last 19 days yesterday, 1st of Jan (a good start to the year!) . I think i must have shot out about half a bucket of cum, all thats to the magic of Ms V's feet! More about that in a seperate post.

Speaking of cum control, here are some cartoons of wife control, which i found amusing and thought you all would too-

Happy New Year again!