Your Opinion- How I should be serving

In our 3^rd year of lifestyle change, Ms V wants to change the way we have been active sexually. She feels strongly that about my anatomy and how she’ll handle it, and is curious about some stuff we’ve not tried before in our sessions. Now some of the things she wants to do are things ive begged her to reconsider and  im not comfortable with. But she feels that my opinion shouldn’t cloud her judgement, so that solution is to seek an opinion poll from you readers of our blog.

Give us your serious opinion on the following things that Mistress V in considering:

a.       Me cumming – Ms V feels it’s a redundant concept that she can control me only through when and how she lets me cum. She doesn’t need to, as she owns and controls our investments, house and me. I have no assets in my name at all now, and if I misbehave at all, she can simply kick me out of the house legally and figuratively, and ill be just another beggar on the streets of Delhi. She has expressed her ‘disgust’ to me more than once that she shouldn’t have to be bothered about whether I masturbate at home, but if she wants to use my cock and I cant get it erect she’s going to be very angry and take action accordingly. That’s something I never want to disappoint her with. So whether I have cum or not, I intend to always obey her, and she knows it.

Ms V needs me to be ready to service her when she’s in the mood, usually with my mouth. She has said that she will never want to jerk me off, or let me touch any part of her with my cock, so I shouldn’t ask.

My view is that I would miss feeling her hands or her beautiful feet or legs on my cock, something I fantasise about even now when shes not around.

Your opinion?

b.      Ass fucking – Ms V has now developed a fixation with using my ass as final frontier for her control over me. She ordered a strapon online (to be received in the next 3 days I think), and told me she wants me to keep my ass clean and free of hair from now. She feels that males have considered ass fucking women as casual as regular sex, so why shouldn’t she be able to use me the same way?

My view is that this is something I have never even fantasised about, and honestly dread. It’s a violation, closer to rape than anything for a man, so I’d rather not go there.  

Your opinion?

c.       Cross dressing – My wife feels making me wear panties and a dress would be perfect when she wants to rub home our role reversal at home. Combined with her plan to use the strapon on me, this would complete her control over me, which makes her happy.

My view is that this is something that kill smy idea of a man totally, even if im a man under my wife.

Your opinion?

d.      Online hiring out – Ms V she would like to have me serve other women online on cam, and record it for her own use. While neither of us are comfortable with the idea of each other having actual sex outside our marriage, this would be a good alternative to the real thing, and amusing for her.

Your opinion?

Please give us your opinion by leaving a comment here, on Facebook or Fetlife. Before leaving a comment, please keep in mind that your opinion will decide whether Mistress V decides to go ahead with this or not, and will impact my lifestyle for the future!

Our 3rd Lifestyle Change Anniversary!

Last month was the 3^rd anniversary of our marriage transformation into a wife led relationship ,and one which ive enjoyed most of. Mistress V is everything I could’ve imagined even a professional mistress to be when she wants, and a firm yet fair head of our two member family. She’s doing well professional and earns more than enough to provide for both of us, while my job is to ensure I run her house efficiently. She owns and controls our investments, gives me an allowance that im allowed to spend under supervision, and generally controls things (ive explained in my post “How our marriage evolved”)

Last month, Ms V decided to change some things in our relationship, she believes that she sometimes give me too much leeway and that could in the long term harm our relationship. Ms V’s company has been working a lot with government departments, and she says that while the bureaucratic systems can be irritating professionally, she believes a lot of those processes can be used in our relationship so she has total control over what I do. Some of the things she has in mind concern our lifestyle, while some concern my sexual interaction with her. She has asked me to share both with everyone who follows our blog, so that other Indian women and husbands can take inspiration from the same, and give their suggestions on improving our relationship.

The lifestyle changes that Mistress V has decided affect how we live in our apartment in Vasant Kunj, New Delhi. Some of the lifestyle changes that Ms V has said we’ll follow from 01 March 2014 onwards are here:

1.       Clothing – I have been so far wearing an undie in the summers, and full clothing during the winters in the house. Ms V now feels there is no need for me to be dirtying clothes during most of the day, as I should be made to feel my position in the house at all times. Also, it would help make her de-sensitized to my nudity, so that I have no role in making her feel aroused or not aroused, it would be totally dependent on her mood. So from 1 March, I will wear no clothes except in the morning while the maids are around.

2.       Sleeping – So far we’ve been sleeping on the same bed, although I get up much earlier than her to let the maids in in the morning, etc. Mistress V has told me that shes finds it disturbing when I get up early in the mornings, so its more convenient that I sleep on the carpet in the drawing room. I open the doors for the maids in the morning, and then wake up Ms V when its time for her to get ready.

3.       Bathroom – We have been using the same bathroom so far, and have the second bathroom for use by the maids. Ms V feels she shouldn’t have to use the same bathroom as me, so I am now not allowed to use Ms V’s bathroom. I have to use the servants bathroom, and also clean it once a week, and get it inspected by Ms V.

4.       Guests – Ms V feels that when she has guests from the office or her family, it is awkward for her to have me sitting around her as her equal. So from now onwards, if she has guests who do not know me, she will be locking me up in the servant bathroom. I am not to make any noise while im in there, and the light will be kept off. Once the guests leave she’ll let me out.

5.       Her clothes – Ms V feels her maid does a horrible job washing her clothes. So from 01 March onwards, I will wash her clothes including her panties and bras myself. If I screw up or damage them in any way, she will punish me and also deduct the cost of them same from my weekly allowance.

6.       Allowance – Ms V has been giving me an allowance of Rs 200 a week, so around 800 a month. She will be reducing that to around Rs 150 a week, and will keep Rs 50 as a ‘tax’, to be paid to me at the end of the month if ive been on good behavior. If I anger her during the week, no allowance.

7.       Once a month outing application – She has allowed me to meet my own friends outside the house once a month. If I want to go out, I have to give her a written, 2 page application 10 days in advance, explaining why I should be allowed to go, the purpose of the outing, estimated cost, going out and coming back timing. I have to put the written application on her slippers after she’s gone to bed for the night. She will reply with an ‘ok’ or ‘rejected’ in 7 days time.

8.       Additional money application – If my outing application is approved and if I don’t have enough monthly allowance left out of the total Rs 800, I can put in a written application to my wife for additional money. This additional money request cant be more than Rs 500 at any time, and should be made at least a week before the planned outing. It should explain why I want the money, reason why she should be favourably disposed. She will reply within 7 days.

9.       Punishment- Ms V does not believe in spanking or corporal punishment as such. But depending on the severity of my action, she will be doing any of the following – making me stay as a ‘murga’ for as long as she wants, tieing my balls and cock with a string and tie them to the main door and leave me there, put clothpins on my cock, balls, tongue, ears and nipples and use me as furniture. In the extremest of cases, if I ever shout back at her or act savage (which I will never have the audacity to do), she has told me she will use pepper spray on my cock and balls.

So that’s a glimpse of what our lifestyle is going to be in a few days from now. My wife knows whats best for our relationships, so I think I see the sense in wht she wants us to do. Let us know what you think!