How our Marriage Evolved
My wife and I have been married for the
last five years. For privacy sake, Ill be referring to us by our initials only
– she is Mistress V and Im A. we don’t plan to have any kids, mainly because we
have an independent, free wheeling kind of lifestyle, and a kid was never part
of our plans for a joint future. Our vanilla marriage turned into a female led,
femdom marriage in three stages, so here are the first two stages of my story
of how i became a submissive house husband:
Stage 1 – Early Marriage
I have been into female domination from my
teens, and when I met and married my wife, I didn’t tell her about my addiction
to femdom, but it had to show through soon anyway! It started when I used to
sometimes have problems getting my cock hard when we’d have sex, because over
the years I’d got so used to femdom (fantasies and a few paid sessions abroad)
that now vanilla sex rarely made got me erect. So she’d be horny and wet, and
here I’d be limp, so I’d go down on her and lick her
pussy to satisfy her. She’d give me a handjob (no blowjobs), but be irritated
with me. So little by little I started asking her if she could do things during
sex that turned me on – could I lick her feet, then could she spank my ass, or
slap my cock, could she please sit on my face! Once she saw that I get rock
hard doing these things, she automatically started doing it during sex!
A typical sex session would usually (not
always) have two orgasms for her and one for me– once while I’d lick her pussy
and once when I was hard and we did penetration sex, now usually with her on
top. Otherwise it’d be me going down on her, followed by a handjob or a
footjob. She has beautiful feet, so my cock would be rock hard in seconds, and
I’d blow my cumload all over the room!
Stage 2 – Confession and control transfer
Once our sex was transformed partly into a
female led session, I soon lost control and decided to open up to her. I asked
her if she would mind using rope on my balls n cock, treating me like a dog, and generally taken
control over me during sex. To my surprise, she seemed to be more amused than
offended that I was a freak! She took to tying up my balls, slapping them,
making me dance naked with an erection and slapping and scolding me like a pet
with total comfort. I was a heaven, and started looking forward to our sessions
– in fact, now id get a hard erection at the thought of it!
The problem was her controlling behavior
wouldn't stop outside of sex, she started telling me what to do, where to go
and who I couldn’t meet in regular life too. Initially I fought back, and told
her it was only during sex that I enjoyed it. Then we had months of tussles
over this, because she refused to continue with our sex sessions then, and id
get frustrated. While I could have paid sex outside, Mistress V was really good
at dominating me, and I was addicted to her. So finally we talked about it, she
said she couldn’t be two persons, a dominant during sex and a goody goody wife
outside of sex and id have to choose. So I agreed- She would lead the marriage…
she would decide large issues like our investments, our friends outside, our
holiday plans etc. and the little things too- which movies we’d see, what kind
of haircut ill get, and when to have sex! She made me agree that she would
decide if I was allowed to cum, when she wanted sex, what work around the house
I would do. Mistress V would become the mistress of the house and her husband.
I agreed - I became a submissive husband.
Exactly how it should be !!!
ReplyDeleteWell done Mistress V, you went for what you wanted & it ended in a total win-win for both !!!
Thanks Anon! Ill convey your comment to Ms V, she's always pleased to have someone compliment her!
DeleteWhat I would like to see is your wife's reaction to your words here. Print them out so she can comment on them. Record her words and transcribe them in a different color. Can she recall her reaction to her thoughts then as to what they are now? How should you have done things differently now that she has the perspective of time? It would be of great service to us who have yet to cross the line. Furthermore an explanation of what the 'comment as:' is all about would be nice as I am confused by it. I would not want my name plastered all over the net and don't understand how the different profiles would be displayed. Could you show examples? Thanks, a new fan
ReplyDeletenot sure i understand what you need, your comments seems more technical than about the lifestyle. and i cant ask V to perform based on reader inputs, you can write to her and ask her.
ReplyDeleteshes at iamagodess1@gmail.com
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